正義感
A keen Sense of justice
除非你能以公正的態(tài)度對(duì)待他人,否則即無(wú)法培養(yǎng)出吸引入的個(gè)性,而且也無(wú)法達(dá)到明確目標(biāo),正義感的一項(xiàng)不可或缺的根本要素,就是“有意的誠(chéng)實(shí)”。
Unless you deal justly with others you cannot hope either to cultivate an attractive personality or to succeed in your definite major purpose.The essential component of a keen sense of justice is a dedication to intentional honesty.
許多人把誠(chéng)實(shí)當(dāng)做是一種權(quán)宜之計(jì),但由于這種誠(chéng)實(shí)態(tài)度彈性太大,致使它可能會(huì)被扭曲成謀求自己利益的一種手 段。在培養(yǎng)坦白的說(shuō)話態(tài)度時(shí),你就已經(jīng)在實(shí)踐有意的誠(chéng)實(shí) 方面,跨出了重要的一步;你必須堅(jiān)持這種誠(chéng)實(shí)美德,并且無(wú)論是否會(huì)為你帶來(lái)立即的好處都要實(shí)踐它。
Many people are honest for the sake of expediency, but this kind of honesty is so flexible that it can be contorted to serve in any situation which furthers their interests.By cultivating frankness of speech,you are already taking an important step in practicing intentional honesty;you must adhere to that honesty so closely that you practice it under and circumstance,whether or not it promises you any immediate gain.
即使正義感無(wú)法使你抓住每一次的獲利的機(jī)會(huì),但它卻 能為你帶來(lái)下列的實(shí)際好處。
Even if a keen sense of justice prevents you from seizing every opportunity, it carries with it a host of practical benefits:
1.它為你建立起信心的基礎(chǔ);沒(méi)有了信心你將無(wú)法培養(yǎng)出吸引人的個(gè)性。
It establishes the basis of confidence,without which you cannot have an attractive personality
2.它建立起深具魅力的誠(chéng)摯和健全的性格。
It builds a fundamentally sincere and sound character,which by itself is a powerfully attractive trait
3.它不僅會(huì)吸引他人的注意,同時(shí)還提供獲得真正而 是永久不變之個(gè)人利益的機(jī)會(huì)。
It not only attracts people but offers opportunities for real and lasting personal gain
4.它使你培養(yǎng)出自立和自重精神。
It builds your sense of self-reliance and self-respect
5.它強(qiáng)化你的道德良知,并因而使你的行動(dòng)更為迅速, 因?yàn)榇藭r(shí)你的動(dòng)機(jī)和欲望比以往更加清晰。
It strengthens your relationship with your conscience and thus allows you to act more promptly since your motives and desires are clearer
6.它吸引值得你交往的朋友并且擊敗你的對(duì)手。
It attracts worthwhile friends and discourages you enemies
7.它敞開(kāi)你的心胸迎向信心。
It opens your mind to faith
8.它保護(hù)你兔子陷入破壞性的爭(zhēng)議,想想看有多少杰 出人物因?yàn)檠孕胁簧鞫呱献晕覛缰贰?/P>
It protects you from destructive controversies.Consider how often people of prominence are laid low by revelations of impropriety
9.它鼓勵(lì)你以具有魅力的個(gè)性朝飼明確目標(biāo)邁進(jìn)。
It inspires you to move toward your definite major purpose with greater personal initiative
正義感不僅是一種獲得實(shí)質(zhì)利益的工具,同時(shí)還能強(qiáng)化 各種人際關(guān)系,它驅(qū)除貪婪和自私,并使你更了解你的權(quán)益 和責(zé)任,而所有其他個(gè)性也將因?yàn)橛辛苏x感而更有力量。
A keen sense of justice is not merely a tool for gaining material rewards.It enhances every human relationship.It discourages avarice and selfishness and gives you a much better understanding of your rights,privileges,and responsiblities.With it,every aspect of attractive personality grows stronger.